Tuesday 6 October 2015

Let the main point shine through

宝贝们早上好 :) Good morning dear lovers :)  How many times have if you missed the real true Point in your life? Family dinners are not about the food,the Point is getting everyone to spend time together, if you only do it once a year,then think of how many more years does the elderly got left. If you are a family member of a bride or groom or have many mutual friends at a wedding, getting to a wedding early is also about catching up. If you think about it, for a HUGE and i mean HUGE gathering to pull out all relative and friends you only got 2 cards in hand. A Wedding or a funeral.  So whenever you have a chance to spend time with people you care spend it well,you dont have to wait for the occasion. Put down the phone during dinner, the person you are eating with is now the most important person at that moment, the text,email can all wait. Pause your game for a moment someone around you might need your hug and you just missed that,pay attention to people with feelings amd not machines. Stop replying while driving, the person on the other side would understand, its not worth to trade an accident for a text reply. And if the other person throws a fit on you for not replying then that person dont matter because people who matter dont mind. My Point is when you realize what the point really is,your initial complaint wont be that bad. The restaurant is very cold, food is not fantastic, place is a little far, but the point is to spend time with your family and relative, spend with you 98 year old mother/granny, as for the complaint just change place next time but it dont have to turn out into a irritated argument,negative conversation on the table. Remember the Point and your etiquette.

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